Today was the day of multiple weddings. As I mentioned
here, thanks to family reunions, I know a fair number of my second and third cousins. Today was the wedding of Charles, my third cousin, who also grew up in Northern Virginia. Over the years our families have come together for dinners to celebrate such things as births, baptisms, and graduations, and other random occasions. It's been nice having family nearby, and Charles' parents and siblings are a group of witty, entertaining, cerebral people who keep any gathering hopping. I've been looking forward to Charles’ wedding as a chance to visit not only with Charles and his family, but also with the extended family of aunts, uncles, and cousins.
Today’s service was a full Mass at a Catholic church in Fredericksburg. The church was simply decorated, with a soaring ceiling lined in a rich brown wood. The bride wore a dress with a long train, the veil’s train longer than the dress'. The line of the dress was clean, and it had a simple, elegant look.
I've never been to a full Mass before. The church had a great organ, which the organist played beautifully. There was a cantor, which I alternately liked and hated. For those not familiar, a cantor stands at the front of the sanctuary, is mic-ed, and sings any time there is congregational singing. Sometimes everyone sings along, and other times only that cantor sings, with the congregation joining at specific points. The cantor had a good voice, with a very folksy sound that was easy to sing along with. The issue I had was less with this specific cantor and more with the concept of a cantor. Singing is one of the few ways that the congregation can participate in the service. I missed not being able to participate during all the songs.
One amazing note on music: Charles'
aunt is a professional opera singer and sang Caccini’s Ave Maria to close the Mass. It was beautifully sung, with a restraint that matched the tone and mood set by the accompaniment. She was positioned next to the organ, near the back of the sanctuary, and her voice alternately soared and quietly crept through the large, open space. As the last notes of the piece died, I leapt from my seat and ran out the front door, barely beating the Maid of Honor and Best Man, so Kristin and I could drive back to Northern Virginia for our second wedding of the day. As we rounded the corner of the parking lot, people burst out the front doors of the church. How we wish we could have stayed to see Charles and Jessie off.
But traffic called. We had to get back to Northern Virginia, drop Clara off with her betrothed, and get over to a country club nearby for Ron and Jen’s wedding. There was a moment there where, due to traffic on I-95, we were drawing up contingency plans – Kristin drops me off at the wedding so I can see the service, Kristin takes Clara to her betrothed's, Kristin comes back to join me for the reception – but the traffic gods looked down on us, smiled, and we made it with moments to spare.
The country club was beautifully appointed among tall hardwood trees, with simple decorations for the wedding. Rather than over-do the scene, Ron and Jen ... okay Jen ... opted for an elegant look without any over-the-topping. I've been to a wedding or two that sacrificed the former at the altar of the latter. They had pictures of themselves throughout the space, pictures together, with family, with friends, and it was fun to see these different moments in their individual lives and in their new, joint life. We pulled into a parking space next to another coworker and his wife, and quickly saw two other coworkers and their spouses, so we headed in en masse. WPNI was representing.
The actual wedding took place on a deck overlooking the golf course. The afternoon was clear and warm, with a blue sky and puffy, white clouds. As Jen walked in, the crowd stood and did a collectively intake of breathe. She looked amazing in a strapless gown, with white on white detailing, and a dark red trim along the bust line and down the train. On the back, the dress laced up with ribbon in the same red. The red trim also included some embroidery. The contrast between the red and white, as well as the detailing on the red, made an amazing visual impact. It was a singular dress, making her look spectacular on her wedding day.
The minister, an older gentleman who was performing – easily – his 500th wedding, was delightful and adeptly intermingled humor with the more serious parts of the service. Afterwards, the family and wedding party gathered for photos while the guests enjoyed hors d'ouvres and cocktails. The reception then began with the presentation of the wedding party and the new couple.
The reception was a blast, with good food, excellent dining companions (thanks for the great time John & Joe, James & Darcy, Jeff, and Scott & Gretchen), and dancing. Kristin was even a good sport and danced along with me. You may not know this, dear blog-reader, but I love to dance. Kristin is lukewarm on the subject, but humors me at weddings and every once in a while when I ask her to dance around our kitchen as music blares from my computer. She's a good dancer. It helps when you have such a wonderful person leading. (Oh, the humility….)
We knew the Boo would be a little cranky, so we cut our evening a little short, thanked the hosts, congratulated the newly-married couple, bid adieu to our friends, and picked up Clara.
What a fun day.
What a busy day.
What an a-lot-of-driving day.
I hope we never have one quite like this again.
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